CarolinaKid Posted January 29, 2020 Report Share Posted January 29, 2020 A really close buddy reach out to me after his dr appt on tuesday.He told me the dr told him to get everything in order in his life and gave him about 9 months.he told me he broke down and cried in his office.it all to do with his heart condition and something to do clots.again i was at a lost to say nothing when i was told this. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
CarolinaKid Posted January 29, 2020 Author Report Share Posted January 29, 2020 im thinking of calling him and asking to join me for lunch or dinner and just talk, would this be bad going over the results of his dr visit. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
mikeman Posted January 29, 2020 Report Share Posted January 29, 2020 im thinking of calling him and asking to join me for lunch or dinner and just talk, would this be bad going over the results of his dr visit.No, he reached out to you, he want's to talk, take the poor guy to lunch. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Shavencoinpurse Posted January 29, 2020 Report Share Posted January 29, 2020 Why do people post this crap? Sorry about your friend but go talk to your family and friends about it. This is a gambling message board Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
IAG Posted January 29, 2020 Report Share Posted January 29, 2020 im thinking of calling him and asking to join me for lunch or dinner and just talk, would this be bad going over the results of his dr visit. Would be nice gesture to invite for lunch/dinner. I would let him lead the conversation as far as the particulars and how much he wants to share. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
CarolinaKid Posted January 29, 2020 Author Report Share Posted January 29, 2020 Thanks guys for the help, i think i will just do that Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
sugardaddy Posted January 29, 2020 Report Share Posted January 29, 2020 CK: It's a privilege you have that he came to YOU with such news, and an immense opportunity to help him, but know this: YOU don't HAVE to have all the answers for him, and his situation. Just lend him your ear, and a shoulder to cry on when he needs it. At the same time, REMIND him that God has the last word in it all. Doctor's can only say, control, and do so much. In the end, it's God's will that prevails. Encourage him to confront his situation head-on, and encourage him to make the necessary preparations and plans for what may come in the weeks and months ahead. Maybe make time to meet with him periodically and follow up on him, etc. For sure, invite him to church. Best wishes and prayers. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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