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Kinger the fact you want to stop looking at porn/fapping but can't is a good enough reason to change.

 

The key to most addictions is identifying the cause that leads to the problematic behavior. You look at porn for a reason. Maybe the reason is boredom, routine, loneliness, anxiety, stress - whatever. The behavior relieves whatever is causing that pain. Porn has become the mechanism you use to deal with the malaise (even when it stops working).

 

You need to find whatever is causing this pain and try to change the behavior you use. Either by substituting something else in its place or just learning to deal with it. Just deciding to stop fapping or looking at porn will lead nowhere no matter what arbitrary chastity deadline you give yourself unless you deal with the underlying issues.

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What are your addictions, pal?

Where do I begin?

 

I have the most addictive personality on earth. My only saving grace is that I'm very concerned with outward appearances which have always kept me from falling off the deepend or when I started to and got called out id change for the short term or hide it better.

 

Current addictions-

 

Exercise/Weight loss

Weed

Nicoerette gum

 

In the past-

 

Booze

Coke

Opiates (been on and off these for 10 years)

Xanax

Whores

Gambling (sports , poker, scratchers , pit games all at different times or combined)

Shopping online

Cigs

Video games

Weight loss pills

 

 

Those are just the ones I can think of off the top of my head, probably some others as well

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Kinger the fact you want to stop looking at porn/fapping but can't is a good enough reason to change.

 

The key to most addictions is identifying the cause that leads to the problematic behavior. You look at porn for a reason. Maybe the reason is boredom, routine, loneliness, anxiety, stress - whatever. The behavior relieves whatever is causing that pain. Porn has become the mechanism you use to deal with the malaise (even when it stops working).

 

You need to find whatever is causing this pain and try to change the behavior you use. Either by substituting something else in its place or just learning to deal with it. Just deciding to stop fapping or looking at porn will lead nowhere no matter what arbitrary chastity deadline you give yourself unless you deal with the underlying issues.

Jesus Christ, Chickadee is too smart to be posting here.

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Kinger the fact you want to stop looking at porn/fapping but can't is a good enough reason to change.

 

The key to most addictions is identifying the cause that leads to the problematic behavior. You look at porn for a reason. Maybe the reason is boredom, routine, loneliness, anxiety, stress - whatever. The behavior relieves whatever is causing that pain. Porn has become the mechanism you use to deal with the malaise (even when it stops working).

 

You need to find whatever is causing this pain and try to change the behavior you use. Either by substituting something else in its place or just learning to deal with it. Just deciding to stop fapping or looking at porn will lead nowhere no matter what arbitrary chastity deadline you give yourself unless you deal with the underlying issues.

 

Nice.

 

Bang on.

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Kinger the fact you want to stop looking at porn/fapping but can't is a good enough reason to change.

 

The key to most addictions is identifying the cause that leads to the problematic behavior. You look at porn for a reason. Maybe the reason is boredom, routine, loneliness, anxiety, stress - whatever. The behavior relieves whatever is causing that pain. Porn has become the mechanism you use to deal with the malaise (even when it stops working).

 

You need to find whatever is causing this pain and try to change the behavior you use. Either by substituting something else in its place or just learning to deal with it. Just deciding to stop fapping or looking at porn will lead nowhere no matter what arbitrary chastity deadline you give yourself unless you deal with the underlying issues.

 

Great post, pal.  Thank you.

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