WVU Posted August 29, 2017 Report Share Posted August 29, 2017 If my girlfriend was moving into my house, I wouldn't ask her to pay shit. This isn't a roommate. It's your girl. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
MonkeyF0cker Posted August 29, 2017 Report Share Posted August 29, 2017 No wonder guys get fucked over so often when relationships end. Bunch of idiots giving the woman a free ride. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
FISHHEAD Posted August 29, 2017 Report Share Posted August 29, 2017 If my girlfriend was moving into my house, I wouldn't ask her to pay shit. This isn't a roommate. It's your girl. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Dingo Posted August 29, 2017 Report Share Posted August 29, 2017 If my girlfriend was moving into my house, I wouldn't ask her to pay shit. This isn't a roommate. It's your girl.I think Erb is in his late 20s or early 30sAnd in a fairly new relationship Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ACH Posted August 29, 2017 Report Share Posted August 29, 2017 No wonder guys get fucked over so often when relationships end. Bunch of idiots giving the woman a free ride. Monkey's did not last so he is biased. Maybe some clues as to why. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Teddy kgb Posted August 29, 2017 Report Share Posted August 29, 2017 If my girlfriend was moving into my house, I wouldn't ask her to pay shit. This isn't a roommate. It's your girl.Yep Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
MonkeyF0cker Posted August 30, 2017 Report Share Posted August 30, 2017 Monkey's did not last so he is biased. Maybe some clues as to why. Don't kid yourself. Most don't last. The only regret I have is that I wish I would have taken the advice I'm giving today. Would have saved myself a lot of drama in my 20's. It's absolutely stupid to hand over someone else the advantage in the business end of a relationship. A relationship is a business deal. No matter how much love there is. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
barman Posted August 30, 2017 Report Share Posted August 30, 2017 First off , don't live with her. If you do, just pay the property taxes+1 and +1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
barman Posted August 30, 2017 Report Share Posted August 30, 2017 Does she pay you monthly rent? If you don't charge her rent, the least she could do is put in for the property taxes.Or make at least make sure she knows where the washer/dryer, vaccum cleaner and ironing board are in the house :-) Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
barman Posted August 30, 2017 Report Share Posted August 30, 2017 Don't worry soon the house will be hers and you'll be in your rental.heh Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Dark Raver Camper Posted August 30, 2017 Report Share Posted August 30, 2017 Tacky, but it isn't my house. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Dark Raver Camper Posted August 30, 2017 Report Share Posted August 30, 2017 If you live in wb, you should pay her to be a possible human shield when shit goes down. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Dark Raver Camper Posted August 30, 2017 Report Share Posted August 30, 2017 Worst experience of my life. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Dark Raver Camper Posted August 30, 2017 Report Share Posted August 30, 2017 Fucking armed robbery, right outside my window, shots fired. Found empty h bundles on the sidewalk multiple times. Called 911 about 4-5 times, in 5 years of living there. Cannot stand it. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Screw Andrews Posted August 30, 2017 Report Share Posted August 30, 2017 So I own my house and don't have a mortgage. Dating a girl for a year now and we're thinking about living together at the start of the new year. We both make the same salary. We agreed to split everything 50/50, utilities, cable, groceries, etc. My only question is about taxes on the house. Do I just pay 100% of the property taxes if she is living here too? I've had some people tell me yes because it's basically like a "utility" that comes with living in the house. Other people tell me that I own 100% of the house so there's no reason for her to split taxes with me. The taxes aren't crazy and my rental property covers all my expenses easily without even dipping into my paychecks, do I just forget about the taxes and pay them all?So ERB what you think about what's been said here...give me that and then I'll give my old man advice Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Dark Raver Camper Posted August 30, 2017 Report Share Posted August 30, 2017 I'm not Erb, but just like Erb, and mostly everyone else, I'm going to do what I was going to do, no matter how sound advice is. It's human nature. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Dark Raver Camper Posted August 30, 2017 Report Share Posted August 30, 2017 So that is split taxes cuz that's what he intended to do. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
housepicks Posted August 30, 2017 Report Share Posted August 30, 2017 Of course he intended to. Because most people won't even think about that as an option. I'd just move her in with no talk about money and she if she started paying some bills. If she didn't, you don't want to be with her anyway. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ERBtheGREAT Posted August 30, 2017 Author Report Share Posted August 30, 2017 If you live in wb, you should pay her to be a possible human shield when shit goes down.Bad parts in every town, I live in a nice part of town hasn't been a crime in over 10 years. Nice neighborhood with lots of families I've known my whole life, not worried about living here. Eventually moving to mountain top, though. I want more land. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ERBtheGREAT Posted August 30, 2017 Author Report Share Posted August 30, 2017 So ERB what you think about what's been said here...give me that and then I'll give my old man adviceHonestly I'm still undecided. She has offered to pay 50/50 split of everything already, utilities, food,cable/internet, etc. I love to cook, she does all of the cleaning, laundry, etc. We went for chinese tonight, some groceries etc. and she wouldn't even let me pay because I bought dinner when we went out Sunday. Honestly I feel like I'm not even going to push the issue. When the bill for the taxes come it will be on the kitchen table, if she sees it and offers something towards it fine, if she doesn't it wouldn't really bother me. I was just wondering if anyone was in this kind of situation and how they handled it, what's proper etiquette, etc. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
yisman Posted August 30, 2017 Report Share Posted August 30, 2017 Don't worry soon the house will be hers and you'll be in your rental. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
The Meatman Posted August 30, 2017 Report Share Posted August 30, 2017 Would she be renting otherwise? I'd make her pay more than the property taxes since you'd be saving her a lot more than that. Charge her double your property taxes per month. You both benefit then. Otherwise, she's easily getting the best of it.You are one(1) sorry mother fucker. Geez. Dave "The MeatMan" Scandaliato Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
The Meatman Posted August 30, 2017 Report Share Posted August 30, 2017 Don't kid yourself. Most don't last. The only regret I have is that I wish I would have taken the advice I'm giving today. Would have saved myself a lot of drama in my 20's. It's absolutely stupid to hand over someone else the advantage in the business end of a relationship. A relationship is a business deal. No matter how much love there is.You are one(1) sorry mother fucker kid. Geez part #2. Dave "The MeatMan" Scandaliato Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Screw Andrews Posted August 30, 2017 Report Share Posted August 30, 2017 Honestly I'm still undecided. She has offered to pay 50/50 split of everything already, utilities, food,cable/internet, etc. I love to cook, she does all of the cleaning, laundry, etc. We went for chinese tonight, some groceries etc. and she wouldn't even let me pay because I bought dinner when we went out Sunday. Honestly I feel like I'm not even going to push the issue. When the bill for the taxes come it will be on the kitchen table, if she sees it and offers something towards it fine, if she doesn't it wouldn't really bother me. I was just wondering if anyone was in this kind of situation and how they handled it, what's proper etiquette, etc.From the sound of that it sounds like your're somewhat unsure where this relationship is going but more than willing to give it a shot....so with that being said just know your states laws in case it goes not so well and you need to not live together....I would talk to an attorney if not sure....and if you don't mind moving if it doesn't work out but think things will be good long term you could always offer to sell her 50% of the house....then you would be 50-50 partners and could just sell or buy out later if things don't go according to plan....I'm an optimist and hope things work great for you and your girl....but unfortunately the business side has to be considered....oh and as to the taxes if you think it's going to work it's not a bad investment in the relationship...pretty cheap really Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ACH Posted August 30, 2017 Report Share Posted August 30, 2017 Don't kid yourself. Most don't last. The only regret I have is that I wish I would have taken the advice I'm giving today. Would have saved myself a lot of drama in my 20's. It's absolutely stupid to hand over someone else the advantage in the business end of a relationship. A relationship is a business deal. No matter how much love there is. https://youtu.be/JEdBndu0YUM Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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